The best lesson from my mom.

        When I was a little child, I have a special experience. In my 17 years, I moved to a new high school which is very far away from my hometown, which my peers will rarely do. Because my parents want me to have a better education. And my father and my mother separated for half a year because of my changing school. My mom took care of me, While my father need to work.

        During that time, I lived with my mom. Since we high school students have lots work to do, all I need to do is to focus on my study, and prepare for the college entering exam. So my mom took on all the house work. She cooked food for me, washed my clothes, and she has no entertainment activities to do because she knew nobody here. What I think to both of me and my mom is that, I was under a ton of pressure, while she is more free than me. in another word, I think it is unfair for us, and I sometime would yell her, at that moment.

       
        I still believed that I suffered more than her until I was leaving for America.

       
        Now I am living alone, I need to cook for myself, clear up my stuff,  and take care of myself as well aw my study. And now I can tell, It is not that easy.

She never teaches me, but what she did encouraged me, and I think I am getting a special ability by understanding her, that is to be independent, also that is what I learned from her.