Traditional idea is that being alone may make one feel lonely, so we are supposed to go outside for communications with our family or friends. But nowadays, some people believe that being alone is a better choice than company by others when we are growing up, because it can help us to think more about ourselves. In my opinion, we need to spend time alone, but it can't be a long period, just some hours in a day or some days in a month or a year, that would be enough. If one choose to live alone without any friends or others' helps, in another word, separated with society, his personality may grow in a unhealthy way.
I always spend some time by myself each day, for example the time before I go to bed, or when I just go home. Usually I will use these short times to make a conclusion of that day. Thinking about things I experienced, new people I met, and new knowledge I learned. I believe it is necessary to summary each of your day, because it helps us make plans for the future. So i really enjoy my alone time.
When asked whether I will choose to live alone when I grow up, I think the answer is no. I believe that our parents are not only our nurturers, but also our close teachers. they help us develop a healthy cognisance when we grow up, especially in our adolescence. And our friends will help us to learn how to build up friendship, how to communicate with others.
I think my alone time is enough today, actually I never feel no time to be alone as long as I want to be. Because thinking yourself doesn't means you can't be with others. For example when you are on the shuttle, people are around you, but no one knows who you are, then you can think by your own.
You may be alone, but you don not need to feel lonely.
Drew, I liked your organization and I can identify myself in some behaviors that you described.
回复删除thanks man!
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回复删除I liked your moderate view to this matter, and how you attach to your family and friends.
Yes, I have more to say about attaching with my family and friends, I would like to add it latter.
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